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Couples who talk about sex
have better sex.


Effective intimate communication is a crucial component in developing and maintaining passion in a relationship.

In a 2017 study of over 38,000 individuals in long-term relationships, men and women who used more intimate communication strategies identified as more sexually satisfied and reported experiencing more passion with their partner, than did individuals who did not use those communication strategies.

Simply put: Couples who talk about sex have better sex.

The question is... how do they do it effectively?


We design games for couples to talk about - and have - better sex.


We think adults deserve relevant, age-appropriate, and pleasure-positive Sex Education.

So we created Sexperiential Learning™, a "hands-on" approach to adult sex ed. Partners play games to learn each others’ needs and gain new intimate conversation strategies.

"Sexperiential Learning™" comes from "Experiential Learning" - an educational technique where students learn by having and then reflecting on an experience.

In Sexperiential Learning™, Kits are the experience - with research-backed activities and games to guide lovers to better intimate communication - and better sex!


How does it work?

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Our research-backed, proprietary activities are a blend of cognitive science, relationship psychology, linguistic studies, and education pedagogy... with a healthy dose of kink, of course!

Every Kit experience is designed to be an erotic Choose Your Own Adventure. By mixing and matching activity cards, partners can get mild or wild as they are guided through the stages of arousal, play, and aftercare.

Every KinkKit also implements practices from Kink and BDSM, such as explicitly stated consent-culture, powerplay, and aftercare.

In order to get the full benefits of our specially curated “curriculum”, it’s important to try ALL of the games in the KinkKit — then switch roles, and try it again!


Why games?

“It is in playing, and only in playing, that the individual is able to be creative and to use the whole personality, and it is only in being creative that the individual discovers the self.”

– D.W. Winnicott

What better way to encourage intimate communication than with a fun, playful environment?

Play is a vital yet underrated component of passion in relationships. Science has shown that play is just as important for us as adults as it was when we were children: it helps with everyday stressors, has a positive impact on our relationships, and even helps with healthy aging.

Sex can be vulnerable and stressful - especially if we feel expectations or pressures to perform in a certain way. Bringing play into the bedroom allows us to lose our inhibitions, laugh, and enjoy the present moment.

We put our research into developing games because they encourage experimentation and give lovers permission to get more imaginative. Some games will make partners feel vulnerable, and others will feel silly. No matter the reaction, though, by playing these games, lovers will begin to talk more openly about their intimate likes, dislikes, and needs.


Rules of Kinkgagement:


Intimate communication isn’t easy.

If it’s uncomfortable at first, you’re probably doing it right! Keep going.

Take your time.

Foreplay is a marathon, not a sprint.

Embrace your weird.

The activities in these Kits are meant to range from silly to serious … laughter and emotions are always encouraged as you set the parameters of a safe space in your bedroom. Deeper bonding happens when you let your guard down!

Communication is KEY.

Talk to your partner about what you’re experiencing. Enjoying something? Give encouragement! Find something that isn’t quite your flavor? Let them know!

Orgasm is not the objective.

Mutual pleasure is the goal.It's not about the destination but how you get there!

Talk about it afterwards.

Always practice aftercare (emotional and physical check-ins and comfort) with your partner - especially when you are trying something new. What aspects did you love? What aspects excited you most? What aspects were less exciting?


Kink isn’t a one flavor satisfies all. Explore the additional customization options with our online portal, and submit your own customization ideas for each game!