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What is Sexperiential Learning™?

 

Sexperiential Learning™ is a new approach to "sex education” for adults that focuses on partners learning each others’ needs and gaining new conversation strategies around intimacy, using hands-on games and activities.

Our research-backed, proprietary board games teach intimate communication and deepen connections between romantic partners.

These activities are created with a blend of cognitive science, relationship psychology, linguistic studies, and education pedagogy.

 

How does it work?

 

Our KinkKits combine psychological and sexual aspects of intimacy-building with a healthy dose of Kink! Partners are guided through each of the stages of the sexual response cycle (excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution) as identified by renowned sex researchers Masters and Johnson.

Every KinkKit also implements practices from Kink and BDSM, such as explicitly stated consent-culture, powerplay, and aftercare.

We tend to not address specific fetishes, although we always encourage you to customize the games to your favorite flavor!

In order to get the full benefits of our specially curated “curriculum”, it’s important to try ALL of the games in the KinkKit — then switch roles, and try it again!

 
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Couples who talk about sex
have better sex.

 

Effective intimate communication is a crucial component in developing and maintaining passion in a relationship - so much so, it was one of the top three important factors mentioned in studies measuring passion in long-term relationships.

A study published by the Gottman Institute in 2011 found that 86% of couples who openly talk about intimacy report happier and more successful long-term relationships. Only 9% of couples who don’t feel comfortable talking about intimacy reported happy and successful long-term relationships.

Simply put: Couples who talk about sex have better sex.

 
 

Why games?

 
“It is in playing, and only in playing, that the individual is able to be creative and to use the whole personality, and it is only in being creative that the individual discovers the self.”

– D.W. Winnicott

What better way to encourage intimate communication than with a fun, playful environment?

Play is a crucial, and often neglected, component of passion in relationships. Science has shown that play is just as important for us as adults as it was when we were children: it helps with everyday stressors, has a positive impact on our relationships, and even helps with healthy aging. Sex, which is full of expectation and social pressure, can be vulnerable and stressful. We realize, therefore, that it is absolutely necessary to bring play into the bedroom.

We put our research into developing games because they encourage experimentation and give lovers permission to get more imaginative. Some games will make partners feel vulnerable, and others will feel silly. No matter the reaction, though, by playing these games, lovers will begin to talk more openly about their intimate likes, dislikes, and needs.

 
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Rules of Kinkgagement:

 

Intimate communication isn’t easy.

If it’s uncomfortable at first, you’re probably doing it right! Keep going.

Take your time.

Foreplay is a marathon, not a sprint.

Embrace the weird.

The activities in these Kits are meant to range from silly to serious … laughter and emotions are always encouraged as you set the parameters of a safe space in your bedroom. Deeper bonding happens when you let your guard down!

Communication is KEY.

Talk to your partner about what you’re experiencing. Enjoying something? Give encouragement! Find something that isn’t quite your flavor? Let them know!

Orgasm is not the objective.

Mutual pleasure is the goal.It's not about the destination but how you get there!

Talk about it afterwards.

Always practice aftercare (emotional and physical check-ins and comfort) with your partner - especially when you are trying something new. What aspects did you love? What aspects excited you most? What aspects were less exciting?

Experiment.

Kink isn’t a one flavor satisfies all. Explore the additional customization options with our online portal, and submit your own customization ideas for each game!

 
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