This Quarter’s Sexperience
Discover a new intimacy as you dominate and submit to your lover.
Lovers who share power equally are more likely to be successful in their relationship. Issues and resentment arise when power relations are unequal between partners -- especially in the bedroom.
Our Art of Control kit helps lovers become aware of their intimate power with powerplay activities designed to heighten intimacy, trust, vulnerability, and communication.
Couples who sexplore with The Art of Control will become more aware of how they take and give control to each other equally -- and how fluid their power dynamic really is.
What's in this kit?
The Art of Control Kit has all the tools lovers need to gain control over their Intimate Powerplay.
Sexplore activities around intimate service, body painting, rewards and "funishment", safewords, sexual to-do lists, erotic scenarios, and good vibes at the push of a button.
9 Sexy Games & Scenarios with Instructional Cards
Using the “Yes, and…” practice from improv theater, lovers will write their own erotic love scene… then act it out.
In this game, lovers will intimately "ink" each other with henna cones, creating hidden temporary tattoos.
Lovers use guided massage to practice a more specific, direction-friendly version of a single safeword.
This versatile activity gives a simple card game of Truth or Dare a naughty powerplay twist.
Lovers will experiment with controlling each others’ good vibrations.
In this activity, lovers work together to build a variety of sexy bucket lists for future sexplorations.
Lovers will practice and hone their domination and submission mindsets with a sexy fill-in-the-blank.
+ 8 sexy accessories curated *JUST* for these activities
This small metal bucket is a handy prop to store ideas for your fucket *ahem* bucket list. Or it could store your dice.
50 Truth or Dare Cards for Couples
This cheeky little game of Truth or Dare contains 50 racy cards with Truth or Dare.. and we’ve added a racy powerplay twist.
Organic Henna Cone
It’s all the excitement of an unplanned tattoo… minus the hangover and morning-after regret. Remove the small green tip from the cone and practice your lettering before you ink up your lover. Results last up to 3 weeks. Re-insert the tip and freeze in between uses, so the organic mehndi paste doesn’t oxidize.
Man, it’s a wet one. This water-based lube has got the kind of lovin’ that can be so smooth, you can practically hear Santana strumming sinfully sexy guitar chords while you get your glide on. Safe for use with silicone toys. Ingredients: Glycerin, Water, Potassium Sorbate, Citric Acid
Quickie Silicone Cuffs
We can’t restrain our enthusiasm for these lovely silicone cuffs. Soft and supple they may be, but once you have these on, you ain’t goin’ nowhere... unless your Dom says so. ;-)
Dark Energy Dice
When you’re ready to play, channel your dark sexual energy with these obsidian black dice. Who are we kidding; they’re just regular black dice. But they are a great prop to amp up the fun of powerplay by leaving it up to chance: who will be Dominant tonight?
USB-charged Silicone Remote Vibe
Control your lover’s pleasure at your fingertips. This discreet silicone vibe comes with a lightweight remote that can be controlled up to 15 feet away (less effective between walls). The size and girth of the vibe are perfect for either vaginal or anal use (condom recommended for anal use). The vibrations are especially discreet with jeans. Charge at least 1 hr for full strength vibrations.
Use with water-based lube only, as silicone lube could damage the toy. Wash with soap and water, or your preferred toy cleaner. Clean before and between uses.
Love Button Arousal Balm
Push me, and then just touch me, until I get my satisfaction. This hemp-infused warming balm from Earthly Body helps builds such a delicious, warm tingling sensation in sensitive areas that you’ll be pressing that Love Button over, and over, and over again. Apply directly to sensitive areas with fingers or lips. 100% Vegan, drug-free and cruelty-free. Ingredients: Hydrogenated Vegetable Oil, Glycine Soja (Soybean) Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Butyrospermum Parkii (Shea Butter), Euphorbia Cerifera (Candelilla) Wax, Cannabis Sativa (Hemp) Seed Oil, Mentha Piperita (Peppermint) Oil, Menthol, Prunus Armenica (Apricot) Kernel Oil, Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil, Persea Gratissima (Avocado) Oil, Tocopherol.